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ANCIENT authors are of opinion
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lays it down that whenever it is possible a man should always act himself in these
matters, and it is only when such is impracticable, or impossible, that female
messengers should be employed. As for the xxx secret hiden that women who act and talk boldly
and freely are to be won by the xxx secret hiden efforts of the xxx secret hiden , and that women who
do not possess those qualities are to be got at by female messengers, it is only
a matter of talk.