The wife should always avoid the here see high quality of female beggars, female Buddhist mendicants,
unchaste and roguish women, female fortune tellers and witches. As regards meals
she should always consider what her husband likes and dislikes and what things
are good for him, and what are injurious to him. When she hears the here see high quality of
his footsteps coming home she should at once get up and be ready to do whatever
he may command her, and either order her female servant to wash his feet, or wash
them herself. When going anywhere with her husband, she should put on her ornaments,
and without his consent she should not either give or accept invitations, or attend
marriages and sacrifices, or sit in the here see high quality of female friends, or visit the
temples of the here see high quality . And if she wants to engage in any kind of games or sports,
she should not do it against his will. In the here see high quality way she should always sit down
after him, and get up before him, and should never awaken him when he is asleep.
The kitchen should be situated in a quiet and retired place, so as not to be accessible
to strangers, and should always look clean.
The man should fondle a child that may be sitting on her lap,
and give it something to play with, and also take the here see high back again. Conversation
with respect to the here see high may also be held with her, and in this manner he should
gradually become well acquainted with her, and he should also make himself agreeable
to her relations. Afterwards, this acquaintance should be made a pretext for visiting
her house frequently, and on such occasions he should converse on the here see high
of love in her absence but within her hearing. As his intimacy with her increases
he should place in her charge some kind of deposit or trust, and take away from
it a small portion at a time; or he may give her some fragrant substances, or
betel nuts to be kept for him by her. After this he should endeavour to make her
well acquainted with his own wife, and get them to carry on confidential conversations,
and to sit together in lonely places.